Young Hands Club

I’ll start off by responding to my master’s query in #o:

lobbes – I guess I’ll read all about it in the review & plan; otherwise from here so far it seems rather as initially predicted that dropping the shorter-term plans & reviews just works as it always “worked” – to not get anywhere.

Yeah, I’m convinced that I should probably go back to daily reporting. I appreciate you letting me test it out, but I can see that the daily reporting serves a crucial role of keeping me anchored to time. Especially now when I have virtually no walls to ram into.

I have a quiet, empty home in which to concentrate in, and I no longer need to commute to the saltmine. Not only that, but about 75% of the work I currently do for this saltmine has me in a position where I have little day-to-day oversight so I pretty much manage myself. Back before I had all this time I was actually much more productive with the time I had (I’m reminded of the “lottery winner bankruptcy syndrome” that Jacob pointed out to me back in 2019).

So I’ll resume the daily reporting starting tomorrow (Saturday). I’m going to copy Nicole’s format; just a quick recap of whatever I did that day and time spent. The review and plan I still want to do monthly, but the daily reports will serve as stand-in walls for myself to keep me from wandering too far off course.

Speaking of not wandering off course, I need to close some other threads.:

The above is pretty much why I say that leaving doors open is a good strategy but not that great of a goal – if you make it a goal in itself, then you won’t be able to make much choice even when/if you do find something you really want to choose. Because at that point, the choice might come with closing some doors and even burning some bridges – and if you refuse to do it at that point, the meaning of it is that you also refuse to fully choose what you finally found to really want. Like a lot of other things, it’s useful up to a point and it’s downright in the way in unusual circumstances.

This makes sense, and I’ll reclassify it in my head as a strategy as opposed to a goal. As I think back I can definitely see some instances where I should have burned a bridge or two, but didn’t.

Anyways, also contained in the above comment thread was me stating that I had some plans I wanted to get out:

With regards to immediate plans and longer term plans, I have some things on my mind that I want to get out in these here comments, but I should probably both think on them a bit more and also get to bed for now. I’ll write more later this week.

Now, I definitely didn’t get them out later that week, nor the week after. So, I can review April with one word: bupkis. As for my immediate plan for May, I’ll keep it simple and doable. I want to get my two articles out: penance #3 and my review of those two hosting companies (while I was too slow to be of use to Diana Coman, there’s still use to me in recording my experiences on my blog). I also want to respond to billymg’s survey on mp-wp usage since he is doing a lot of work on something I use quite a bit and I want to help him out.

Aside from that I really need to focus more at my saltmine job as well. I got lucky for the time-being in a lot of ways I won’t go into, but if I don’t get back up off my ass soon I could be in turd soup in short order.

If I somehow go from 0 to 80 units-of-distance/time during May and knock all of the above goals out, then I’ll gladly add more to my plate. But I’ll cross that bridge if I come to it.

Now, it is time to think longer term. First off, I need to be realistic with myself. In the years past I got swept up in a butt-load of very apparently rational goals for myself that I would somehow achieve in mere months, despite my inadequacy for achieving any of those goals.

I’m talking about things like me running off to a different country, or me following a step-by-step guide to “learn how to be a master of my own harem of womens just like MP”.

Yes, it’d be great if I could sprout wings tomorrow and poop out diamonds, but I’m a long ways away from any of that. Decades, realistically speaking, if that. But it doesn’t mean all is lost. I think this ties back into most of the above: the choosing of the right doors/opportunities when they come my way, and *knowing* my own limitations on *which options I can actually take* at any given time. I fucked up with that mp-wp-bot delivery for MP because I a) didn’t bother to understand what the job required, and b) didn’t understand my own limitations on meeting that requirement even if I did know what it required! (Require!)

My point is that I need more realistic goals that fit what I can actually do. These will obviously change as things tend to do, but to start off, here is my 10-year plan for myself (so, by the time I’m 42):

– Eliminate all monetary debt

I have indeed read that Trilema where MP presents the option of just saying ‘fuck it’ and ignoring any existing debt. But I have to face the fact that I am not of that caliber; at least not now. No, I’m the type that will slowly but surely pay off all of his loans the slow way. There are also reasons why (specifically within the next 10 years or so) I do not want to leave the U.S. permanently (as in, burn bridges for my return if I so chose). I’m not saying I plan to die here, but I doubt I’ll be leaving for good any time soon. Some of these reasons I will not reveal into the public record because they are, well, private. Very boring reasons, I may add, but operational security and all that.

Nevertheless, within the last few months I have already paid off a few of my smaller lingering student loans. These days I can at least say I no longer consume more then I bring in, which I have to say is a great feeling. I simply plan to keep on cutting costs and eliminating debt, and increase my monthly intake of dubaloos, and converting bits and pieces into BTC when the opportunity strikes (I can say, that over the last 7 years I have never once said “aw I wish I *didn’t* convert that small amount fiat into BTC”).

It is a slow and bite-sized strategy, but it fits me.

– (Re)Build the House of Benevides

Right now this is a blank slate. My great grandfather (I only heard him called “vovô”) from my father’s side came over to the U.S. from São Miguel Island back in… idk probably the early 1900’s I think. Anyways he apparently was great at fixing shit- televisions and radios and such, and he ended up doing pretty well for himself. I guess he owned several local hardware shops or something. Eventually, the USG decided that they’d put in a highway in the zone where his shops were, and well that was that.

A few generations later and it is just me. I’m the last surviving male that carries my name in the family I believe; everyone else is dead. I remember my mom would always tell me this story of this one time when I was an infant and he was still alive. At this point he was quite old, and half of his face was paralyzed due to a stroke I think- in any case he couldn’t speak words, just noises. I was always told that when he saw me for the first time he held me up above his head and was crying tears of joy. I was a baby so I just freaked out, but still, whether exaggerated or not the image stayed with my whole life. He died well before I could ever converse with him, so that’s the only thing I know of him and I.

I guess what I’m saying is that I’ve always felt a drive to build a powerful and strong family. This is more of a general goal, but over the next decade I want to keep this in my sights. It is really my name to spread as I may, and I’d like to make some mark with it before I also leave this world.

In order to do this, though, I need to make sure I am healthy n’ wealthy first. First step would be the elimination of debt I mentioned earlier, then I work on building wealth and resources.

A family also needs family members, but I can’t be a proper patriarch if I can’t even rule myself. So I’m mainly focusing on the wealth building for the next 10 years, and with trying to do things that will put me in a position to do more things later.

Deadlines
– billymg’s survey (done)
– Hosting company review (done)
– Have a topic for Penance article #3 and a few paragraphs written (Sunday, May 10th)